One fine morning two people who have been though a lot of bad and worse relationships were discussing their past and where things went wrong,one suggested a theory but the other never believed in, until yesterday when it hit her right in the face.
Hedging is a financial term used for a position established in one market in an attempt to offset exposure to the price risk of an equal but opposite obligation or position in another market — usually, but not always, in the context of one's commercial activity.
Hedging is a strategy designed to minimize exposure to risks as a sharp contraction in demand for one's inventory, while still allowing the business to profit from producing and maintaining that inventory.
"Speculation in the basis" where the basis is the difference between today's market value of this relationship and today's value of the hedge (ex or next). If that difference widens favouring the latter, he earns a good relationship after a break up. If that difference narrows, he earns a little less satisfying but consoling relationship.
He has mitigated, but not eliminated, the risk of losing the relationship from the day he established his hedge.
Most of the people hedge their relationships while they are already in one, either by continuing to talk to their ex's or by continuing to flirt with their so – called friends.
If you are with someone, then instead of trusting her and giving her the chance of being the one for you, you keep your options open, because you are not too sure. If you are not now, you never will be is what I think.
You don't think of getting married on the very first date. Come on, let's admit there is nothing liked self proclaimed Love at First Sight, but if you are with someone, then she should be the one for that particular moment. Playing with someone's emotions because you are not too sure is not the right thing to do and nobody gave you that right.
Whatever happens in the end, honey I will live with or without you, like I have said before. It's not that I can't live without you it's just I don't want too, but now I have been left with no choice.
9 comments:
You are absolutely right in realizing that this person(the one you are talking to\about in your blog)always keeps his options open!
He had a little fling with me too and I know of many girls he had such small flings!
I ended that very soon the moment I realized that he is playing with both of us.
He just goes on from every girl to girl finding out if he could give her a chance.
He is the biggest bastard I have ever come across !
Specially when I know you and I know that he is fooling you !
Wake up girl .. take a stand !You are just being vulnerable..you think you CANT or DONT want to live without him ..be strong ..coz HE IS NOT WORTH !!!!
Your friend cheats on you left, right and center .... day n night !!!
@ Anonymous 3 : I thought i was being creative but woah we got a winner ;) plus i would appreciate if you use full stops(.) instead of exclamations (!)
dont wana prevaricate.but who gvs a chance to someone other to abuse a person u ever loved or still do ?mny ppl sail the same boat bt admire their own view n shld ...
u shud write abt lighter things in life ..
woah! just landed up on ur blog from the fake IPL player ;)
yaar!! u write after one full year and you write abt hedging?? kuch aur nahi mila???
:) just kidding.. nice post!
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