Pursuit of Happyness

Hope Happyness finds you in every story unfolding with the every moment in your life ahead.

Seeing every time a star falling from the sky that's the only wish I have made.

No matter how many things I've said, when it comes to you, I've always something more to say.

As the sun rays kiss you to say a late goodbye from the horizon, i just kept wondering.

Was there still to go whole of the day!

Hedging

One fine morning two people who have been though a lot of bad and worse relationships were discussing their past and where things went wrong,one suggested a theory but the other never believed in, until yesterday when it hit her right in the face.

Hedging is a financial term used for a position established in one market in an attempt to offset exposure to the price risk of an equal but opposite obligation or position in another market — usually, but not always, in the context of one's commercial activity.

Hedging is a strategy designed to minimize exposure to risks as a sharp contraction in demand for one's inventory, while still allowing the business to profit from producing and maintaining that inventory.

"Speculation in the basis" where the basis is the difference between today's market value of this relationship and today's value of the hedge (ex or next). If that difference widens favouring the latter, he earns a good relationship after a break up. If that difference narrows, he earns a little less satisfying but consoling relationship.

He has mitigated, but not eliminated, the risk of losing the relationship from the day he established his hedge.

Most of the people hedge their relationships while they are already in one, either by continuing to talk to their ex's or by continuing to flirt with their so – called friends.

If you are with someone, then instead of trusting her and giving her the chance of being the one for you, you keep your options open, because you are not too sure. If you are not now, you never will be is what I think.

You don't think of getting married on the very first date. Come on, let's admit there is nothing liked self proclaimed Love at First Sight, but if you are with someone, then she should be the one for that particular moment. Playing with someone's emotions because you are not too sure is not the right thing to do and nobody gave you that right.

Whatever happens in the end, honey I will live with or without you, like I have said before. It's not that I can't live without you it's just I don't want too, but now I have been left with no choice.

Firsts...

First crush, first love, first kiss, first job and the list go on and on and on but these firsts they never end. Are these "First" overrated or it’s as scintillating and exciting as its sounds. We all think once these firsts happens things wont be the same again, and then whatever will happen will be second, already experienced, so does that mean that we don’t feel the same about it, no more excitement no more eagerness no sensations, will it be "been there done that" to us?

Let’s see

As for a matter of fact we all know that our so called "First Love" usually happens at tender and vulnerable teenage and within few months or so we know that it was not what we have thought of and we get over it. But does that mean that whenever we actually fall in love we won’t feel the jitters, excitement for our every First’s with that person, as we’ll think that it had already happened. So the question lies is.

Is it the "First" or it is "First with a person?"

Think about it....

You will eventually lose someone you love and love someone you never thought you would find. People are going to hate you, love you, love to hate you, and hate to love you….. But the one’s that means the most will always be there… (Sex n the city)

IN THE END IT DOSENT REALLY MATTER!!

I wanted a perfect ending, now i have learned the hard way that some poems do not rhyme and some stories do not have a clear beginning middle and end. Life is about, not knowing and having to change and making the best of it, without knowing whats going to happen next.

Do we really believe it or its just some flowery lines for us???

Well in my opinion no matter how much we say that we want to live in present and leave the rest on the future and lets see what do we have in store for us.... but deep down inside we do wish to know our future.... a secure future, with someone we want to be with.. its just we don't want to admit it because we fear of losing our current relation on that but then again whats the point... who are we doing it for... hurting our own selves and killing our desires and expectations...
yet we do not accept the fact.. hide it completely behind our plastic smiles... even though we wish... that " we lived happily ever after"

Wierd Human Stupid Desire.. Can u Blame them??

Here a little effort from me to explain a part of human behavior to which we all are consciously or subconsciously aware of…. Expectations... I am someone who holds a lot of expectations from life and from everything and everyone around me and I do not see anything wrong in that..but the truth is that I will never accept it and I can see no reasons why should i... Moreover i am not someone who would get disappointed if my expectations don’t get fulfilled cause then if one thing doesn’t work out, i would still hope the other would, look here me being really optimistic in life.....I am more of a person who will hang on to things and wait....but would keep it to myself i.e, I will have great expectations from you but I would never let you know.. and trust me, it would be really hard even for you to understand my unsaid expectations because I can really hide my emotions well expect for those stupid tears which just cannot stay inside the lines..And then i am a dreamer...a hardcore dreamer...as much as i might say reality with joy is better, still deep within me i have a lot of dreams...a world of my own...a world where i am content of who i am...and at the same time where i want things my way! well that's me.. and so are many of us who feel just the same... me just trying to write some of those unsaid feelings..!!